The Challenge of not being alone in the House any longer

I kept saying to my hubby: “Let’s use this time while we’re still alone to have our fun time.” But noooooo. He was hung up on the fact that he couldn’t see his children, afraid that he will never again get to see them or be able to protect them. Of course I understood his fears, at the same time I was confident the day would come when his children would have their father in their lives again.

It happened quicker than we expected. Just as he won in court for the second time around, to have the right to see them and with heavier consequences to his ex if she doesn’t comply this time, his ex pushed both their oldest children on us, overnight.

I thought, fine, we were working towards that anyway, and I knew this day would come. It was just funny because only days before that happened, I was saying to my husband we should enjoy the opportunity to be able to have sex without any hindrance. And I was right, LOL.

Of course right now we want them to settle in and I was trying to keep my hands off my sexy husband as much as I could. I would only hug or kiss him when the kids were not around (they are 15 and 14). I don’t want to be perceived territorial of their father. They haven’t had him in three years, I thought they should enjoy all the attention.