Hm...finally something different:) In a way I envy you a little bit, I envy that passion you seem to have had with this man.

For me that kind of passion only meant one thing - destruction for me. So I renounced it in the name of keeping myself sane, healthy and safe.

Well done on stepping back from that family. As you said, they had their own problems probably before you came but it's better not to be blamed in the end for a problem that didn't start with you.

Life sucks sometimes, doesn't it:)